Going out to dinner with your friends can be a nice change of pace from eating macaroni and cheese at home, but it never fails that the friends you normally cherish outside of a restaurant quickly turn into one or more of the unsavory characters described below.


1. The person who refuses to have an opinion (until a decision is made)

He or she doesn’t have a taste for anything in particular and doesn’t care where you go to eat… until you choose Olive Garden and endure a temper tantrum about the farce of American-style Italian food and the perils of carbohydrate consumption.


2. The person who won’t try anything new

Getting a bite at that cool new restaurant that opened? Forget about it. There’s always one person who would rather eat at Giordano’s for the rest of his or her life rather than venture out of his or her comfort zone.


3. The person who ruins appetizers

Your table will have unanimously decided on getting the chicken quesadillas, and you’ll be imagining that first bite when… “Oh wait. Can we get it without tomatoes, pico de gallo, guacamole, and sour cream?” You subdue yourself enough to keep from flipping the table over, but the one who ruins appetizers decides to add insult to injury: “We can just get it on the side or something.” Real talk: Ingredients on the side are not the same as ingredients on the food item. There’s a psychological difference that impacts the taste. Picky appetizer people ruin meals (and lives).


4. The person who wants to share dessert

“Want to split the cookie sundae?” “Sure…”

NO!!!!!!!!!!!!! We all know each dessert sharer is not going to get an equal portion, and you probably got a salad just so you’d have room for dessert. If you’re not able to consume a full dessert on your own, you don’t need dessert at all.


5. The person who gets embarrassingly upset about the server’s behavior

Five minutes will have passed since you ordered drinks, and suddenly your partner in crime is questioning the server’s credentials and threatening to talk to the manager.


6. The person who needs too many condiments (and freaks out when they’re forgotten)

“Can I get maple syrup for my fries and a side of balsamic dressing for my sandwich?”

Ten minutes after the food arrives



7. The person who gets skeptical about splitting the bill with two credit cards because he or she doesn’t want to pay

So you forgot to ask for separate checks, and neither of you has any cash. You take out your card and tell your fellow diner you’ll ask the server to split it when, “I don’t know if they can do that… I don’t know… Maybe we should just put it on one card… I could always just pay you back?”


8. The person who will “get the next one”

A rare breed that survives from the bartering days, the person who will “get the next one” likes to order four cocktails, two appetizers, the surf ‘n turf, and the chocolate soufflé and then spring their “get the next one” shenanigans on you once the bill comes.


9. The person who somehow forgot to bring his or her wallet



10. The person who’s literally eating all of your fries

It started innocently with a, “I’m stealing a fry, hehe,” but now this person is taking handfuls of fries at a time because suddenly their quinoa seems a lot less appetizing than it did before.


11. The person who’s offering you the gross stuff on his or her plate

“Want my turnips?” …The turnips? No. You don’t want them for a reason, and I feel the same way.


12. The person who’s sharing a bite of his or her food, but they’re putting it on your plate next to some food item(s) you don’t want it to touch



13. The person who’s seriously too picky to eat out

“I just have a question about the menu… who supplies your Parmesan cheese? Do local farms provide your meat? Is your entire kitchen gluten free? Where are your vegan alternatives? What does ‘medium well’ mean to you? Has the restaurant had any health code violations in the past 90 days?”


14. The person who under-tips

I don’t what you’ve heard about this person, but you can’t get a dollar out of them to contribute to the tip your server deserves.


15. The person who snatches the bill and determines what everyone else owes

No one elected this person your table’s comptroller, yet here they are hogging the bill, trying to impress everyone with their basic computation skills. Ironically, someone else is always paying for this individual, too.


16. The person who insists on sitting at a booth or table

It never fails, whenever the restaurant has 50 open tables, you’ll be dining with someone who plainly refuses to sit anywhere but in a booth. It’s even worse when you see several spacious booths perfectly suited for your group, but one naysayer (who will have to use the restroom at some point during the meal) will complain about being “trapped on the inside” and insist on sitting at a table. And let’s not even mention people who unilaterally refuse to eat inside May through October.


15 thoughts on “16 People We’ve All Gotten Dinner With

  1. I’m married to a woman who can’t order anything off the menu without asking to have it altered so severely that it’s barely recognizable from the menu description. Waitresses have been known to devote an entire page of their scratch pads to her item alone. As for the other folks you described, I vaguely recall each of them from when my wife and I used to have friends who would go out to eat with us.

  2. The person who freaking undertips drives me crazy. Those people work hard and shouldn’t be left having to deal with your pathetic crap just because they forgot your stupid 4th refill of water.

  3. I have a friend is a notoriously unfair bill-splitter. She has a hearty appetite, whereas I don’t. I’ll order one entree and an iced tea. She’ll order five appetizers, two entrees and a bottle of wine. Last time I ate with her, the six pieces of sushi I ate cost me $40. I try to avoid dinner with her.

  4. Then there are people who judge the dietary choices of others. “This was a living creature, how can you eat it?” or “do you know how much cholesterol is in this?”, etc.

  5. My dad is the number 1. He is very picky about what type of food he wants to eat, and will say “Nah” to at least ten of the options before we find somewhere to eat. I’ve also encountered the others. The substitutions on the appetizer made me sad. Appetizers are supposed to be shared. There’s things I don’t like, but I’m not going to ask for subs on food that’s being shared. I just won’t eat any if it offends me that much. :/

  6. #4 people don’t exist in my life, generally because people who know me are very much aware of how possessive I am of my dessert. They don’t even dare ask.

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